Maybe you can relate:
Sometimes I do a kind act for my husband out of the goodness of my heart while other times I do it because I want something in return. Some days I offer grace to my husband in abundance because I know I equally need grace; other times I offer it because I want my husband to feel indebted to me. At times, my feelings are genuinely hurt by my husband, but other times I want to control him, so I pretend to be upset.
The motivation behind our actions makes all the difference!
Today, I am over at unveiledwife.com to talk about this why motives are important in marriage. Please join me as we talk about our motives and the importance of paying attention to our the motives of our husbands!